
Mike and I have such an awesome Marriage. I have so been blessed with an awesome man. He has a great love for the Lord, and he respects me to the fullest. We had a talk not to long ago, basically was me filling not good about myself because of weight I have gained I'm very hard on myself, and I need to be told alot that I look nice or just something because if I don't hear It start thinking I look awful and start coming down on myself really bad.
Well Mike is one he don't say it but shows it in other ways, like a slap on the rear or might make little comments that him and I only get as a married couple you know. Well I just need to here babe you look Beautiful today or wow or something like that. He has been trying hard to say whats on his mind when he looks at me and he is thinking it to just come out and say it.
Well I was finishing up in the bathroom with my hair Sunday morning before Church, and as I was walking out he was standing there watching, and he was like baby you look so sexy today, and gave me this huge hug, well yes I just melted in his arms, and I kissed him and told him thank you I needed that. He said its something you need me to just come out say when I'm thinking it and I'm trying to do that, more,and when I was watching you that's what I was thinking, and how lucky I m to have such a Beautiful wife. I'm so blessed when he does that. Makes me feel so good and lets me know how attracted he is still to me.
I think so many times marriages can be rocky, because of many different things, but I know I have heard alot where the man or woman have said he/she just not giving me what I need. Well have you sat down and talked about it? Have you given that other person a chance to tell you or try to do what you need? Have you went before the Lord? These things are very important. I think people are to easy to give up to fast. My husband just is a man who never just comes out and would use those words I needed to hear, because that's just him. He show me in other ways, how much he loves me or thinks I'm Beautiful, But I just wanna hear the words, and he does that now, because I was able to talk to him and tell him I needed him to tell me not just show me, and because he loves me he does it.
I'm so thankful that him and I can talk to each other about anything that may bother us or concern us. We are deeply in love, and being a couple who puts God in the center of our marriage we have something wonderful.
I hope that if anyone reads this that may be dealing with something in that marriage, gives them the strength to sit down and talk with spouse and they can together work on what ever it may be together. Go before the Lord first and allow him to prepare you for your talk and you will be amazed at what communication and having God part of it can do in your marriage.
God Bless
Michele


























